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July 30, 2009

Cherubism Story

Cherubism: real story

 

Victoria Wright talks about her life with cherubism, a facial disfigurement, and how she handles people's reactions.

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Female ejaculation

 

We ask about public female ejaculation, and an expert explains it is an embarrassing condition. Public Female Ejaculatory Unit Calculator helps you work out how much, along with the number of units and calories you have. Sign up to diary and track  over time. 

 

Government unit guidelines

The Government's guidelines say that a man should not regularly drink more than 3-4 units a day and a woman should not regularly exceed 2-3 units a day. To find out more about alcohol and its impact on your health, take a look at our Facts section. If you're worried about your drinking, you should consult your GP.

What is a unit?

One unit is 10ml or 8g of pure alcohol. This equals one 25ml single measure of whisky (ABV 40%), or a third of a pint of beer (ABV 5-6%) or half a standard (175ml) glass of red wine (ABV 12%).

Can’t find your drink?

Work out your units for yourself with this handy sum: Strength (ABV) x Volume (ml) ÷ 1000 = No. of units


E.g.  Pint of Stella - 5.2 x 568 ÷ 1000 = 2.95  Aid hangover recovery

Everyone who drinks too much knows the unpleasant flip side of a night on the tiles – the dreaded hangover.

That horrible morning-after feeling can range in strength and intensity and vary from person to person, but it usually involves a banging headache, sickness, dizziness, dehydration, mild diarrhoea, tiredness and weakness.

A hangover can also leave you struggling to concentrate, irritable and sensitive to light for a prolonged period after your last drink – not a good combination if you want to enjoy the next day and not spend it suffering in bed.

So, what causes a hangover and how can it be treated?

The principal cause is ethanol – the alcohol in your drinks. It is a toxic chemical that works in the body as a diuretic, causing the headache, dry mouth, dizziness and constant nausea. Your hangover eases as the body turns the ethanol into a less toxic chemical. The other factor that affects a hangover is the type of drink you have been downing. Dark drinks tend to make hangovers worse. So does mixing drinks.

What precautions can you take to prevent a hangover?

The Government recommends that men should not regularly drink more than three to four units a day, and women not more than two to three. Units can be complicated to understand, so arm yourself with knowledge before you go out and find out how many units are in your chosen tipple. It may be more than you realise – a large glass of wine, for instance, contains around three units. Follow these guidelines to kick hangovers into touch:

  • Keep well within the Government’s recommended limits. That’s the best way to avoid a hangover altogether.
  • Try not to drink on an empty stomach; eat something – preferably carbohydrates - before you start drinking. The food will help slow the body’s absorbtion of the alcohol.
  • Avoid dark coloured drinks if possible. They contain natural chemicals (congeners) that can worsen the hangover.
  • Drink plenty of water or soft drinks in between alcoholic drinks.

What can you do to treat the symptoms?

  • Drink as much water as you can before hitting the sack and keep more by the bed to slurp if you wake in the night.
  • Take a painkiller – a soluble one in water is best.
  • Take an antacid to settle your stomach.
  • Remember alcohol is a depressant. A tea or coffee may give you a slight temporary lift, but they may also dehydrate you further, so keep up with the water to counteract this.
  • Go for a gentle stroll if you feel able and get some fresh air and light on the face.
  • Avoid hair of the dog – you might think it helps but all you’re doing is easing the alcohol withdrawal and delaying the problem.
  • Get plenty of rest and relaxation and stay away from booze for at least 24 hours after a heavy session.

    Alcohol

    Alcohol and cancer

    • There is no doubt that alcohol can cause seven types of cancer.
    • The more you cut down on alcohol, the more you reduce your risk of cancer.
    • There is limited risk if you only drink a little - such as one small drink a day for women or two for men.
    • You don’t need to be drunk to increase your risk.
    • Drinking and smoking together are even worse for you.

    The consequences of drinking too much alcohol go well beyond the evening’s embarrassing antics or the morning’s hangover. Scientific studies have confirmed that alcohol can also cause cancer.

    Obviously, not everyone who drinks will develop cancer. But on the whole, scientists have found that cancer is more common in people who drink alcohol than people who don’t.

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    Which cancers are affected?

    Drinking alcohol can increase your risk of:

  • Mouth cancer
  • Pharyngeal cancer (upper throat)
  • Oesophageal cancer (food pipe)
  • Laryngeal cancer (voice box)
  • Breast cancer
  • Bowel cancer
  • Liver cancer

Every year, alcohol causes about 6% of cancer deaths in the UK, killing over 9,000 people.

Along with smoking, alcohol causes the vast majority of mouth and food pipe cancers. In the last decade, mouth cancer has become much more common and this may be because of higher levels of drinking.

As little as 3 units a day can increase the risk of mouth, throat, food pipe, breast and bowel cancers.

Can light drinking increase the risk of cancer?

Alcohol can increase the risk of cancer at levels far too low to make an average person drunk. It’s not just people who have ‘drinking problems’ who have higher risks.

As little as 3 units a day can increase the risk of mouth, throat, food pipe, breast and bowel cancers. That’s the amount in one pint of premium lager or a large glass of wine!

Alcohol has a weaker effect on the risk of breast cancer than on other cancers, but it starts having an effect at a lower level.

What about heavy drinking?

The more alcohol you drink, the higher your risk of developing cancer. Heavy drinking can cause cirrhosis of the liver, which can in turn cause liver cancer.

Heavy drinking can also cause heart disease, stroke, high blood pressure, stomach ulcers, pancreatitis and, of course, injuries.

Are there safe limits?

There is limited risk if you only drink a little, such as:

But remember that:

There is no doubt that alcohol can cause seven types of cancer

Which is worse: binge drinking or spreading my drinking across the week?

Research tells us that the total amount of alcohol you drink over time has a much bigger effect on cancer risk than when or how it is drunk.

People are more likely to develop cancer if they drink a lot of alcohol, no matter whether they save it up and drink it in one go, or drink it steadily over a week.

Does drinking matter if you smoke?

People who smoke and drink multiply the damage they receive, because tobacco and alcohol work together to damage the cells of the body. Alcohol makes it easier for the mouth and throat to absorb the cancer-causing chemicals in tobacco.

Studies have found that, on average, people who smoke and drink are up to 50 times more likely to get some types of cancer than people who neither smoke nor drink.

Do all types of alcohol increase the risk of cancer?

All types of alcohol increase the risk of cancer, even red wine. It is the alcohol itself that does the damage, regardless of whether it is in the form of beer, wine or spirits.

Elsewhere in this section, you can read about whether alcohol has any benefits for your health.

Why are women recommended to drink less than men?

The slightly different recommendations for men and women are based on biological differences between the two sexes.

  • A woman’s liver produces less of an enzyme called alcohol dehydrogenase that breaks down alcohol. So alcohol stays in a woman’s body for longer.
  • There is some evidence that drinking just one unit of alcohol a day can significantly increase the risk of breast cancer. Smaller bodies can absorb less alcohol than large ones and on average, women are smaller than men.
  • Because of their curvy shape, women also tend to have more body fat and less body water than men. This means that any alcohol a woman drinks becomes more concentrated in her body that it would be in a man of the same size.

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Cirrhosis of the liver: one man's story

After years of drinking at what he thought were 'normal levels', Andy Ball was diagnosed with the liver disease cirrhosis. He shares his story:

"I don’t have a history of alcoholism in my family and I had a normal relationship with alcohol – it was never taboo. As I got older, though, it became apparent I could drink more than other people.

"At teenage parties, I'd turn up with four cans of beer and after three cans other kids would be getting merry, but I'd be thinking, 'I just feel the same as before'. So I started having a few cans before I went to parties, and then stronger stuff as I got older.

"I started drinking heavily-ish around 17, the last year of my A-levels. I would drink every day, but again, I didn’t think it was a problem. I had four close mates, and I was aware that we drank more than other people. I wasn’t a nasty drunk, I rarely lost my temper and I never got into trouble over alcohol.

"I got four A-levels and started university, and no one commented on my drinking. I was doing weight training and exercise so I didn’t really look like I had a problem. I could drink half a bottle of vodka and nobody would know.

"But by the time I left university I was beginning to feel unwell. I gave up playing rugby and I went to the doctor because I was getting pains in my gut. I had what’s called a fatty liver – which can progress to hepatitis and cirrhosis – but because my health was OK for the next few years, I continued drinking.

'I turned yellow'

'I haven’t had a drink since I went into hospital. It was easy to give up drinking, because I wasn’t an alcoholic – I was just drinking a huge amount'

 

Andy Ball

"In 2001 I became very sick. I literally turned yellow and my hair started falling out. My nails went translucent, and I looked just like a hollow lemon. 

"I was admitted to hospital, and told that I had cirrhosis. I’ve also got a condition known as portal hypertension (very high blood pressure in the large veins that take blood to my liver) because my rigid liver can’t process my blood fast enough.

"The most dangerous thing is that I have swellings, ‘varicose veins’, in my throat (called varices), which are caused by the high pressure in the vein that transports blood from the gut to the liver. If one of them bursts I could die.

"I haven’t had a drink since I went into hospital. It was annoyingly easy to give up drinking, because I wasn’t really much of an alcoholic – I was just drinking a huge amount.

"My liver is quite delicate. I have to eat healthily and take care of myself. I also have to take beta blockers and go to the hospital fairly regularly to check that my varices are OK.

"People do live in denial about the amount they drink. A lot of us are alcohol-dependent to some extent because few of us would choose to socialise without a drink in our hand. But if you continue drinking at a high level, you could end up where I am.” 

Watch the video

Consultant hepatologist Mark Wright talks about how to reduce your risk of developing liver disease.

 

Last reviewed: 15/08/2008

Cirrhosis of the liver: one man's story

Watch the video about how to talk to your teenager about sex if your child is gay

Talking to your teen about sex and relationships may seem like a daunting task, but there are a number of reasons why it's an important thing to do.

1. Talking about sex and relationships helps kids stay safe and healthy
Teenagers from families where parents talk openly about sex have sex later and are more likely to use contraception.

2. Your children care what you think
They may not say it to you, but research with young people says they want to be able to talk to their parents about things that matter. And that includes talking about sex and relationships: not just the biology, but how they're feeling and how to cope with the ups and downs of teenage relationships.

3. Teenagers make mistakes
It’s hard being a teenager and balancing taking risks with being responsible. Talking can help them to be independent but stay safe and healthy.

"We’d had sex education at school, and girls coming in to tell us about pregnancy, but I didn’t ever think it would happen to me," says 17-year-old mum Isabella.

4. Try not to be judgemental
Talking about TV storylines is a good way to bring up the subject without making it personal.

But however shocked you may be about a storyline, it’s important to reassure your child that you’d always want them to tell you about any problem, however big it is.

5. Start young
As soon as a child starts talking, they may ask questions about their body. Keep your answers simple and honest. It will make them feel more comfortable talking about sex in the future. Avoiding a question about sex will make them think sex and relationships are difficult or embarrassing to talk about, and that could affect how they talk to you, and to any future boyfriend or girlfriend.

6. Teenagers want basic information
A survey by young people’s helpline Get Connected found that 50% of teenagers who called weren’t in a crisis; they just wanted basic information about sex but didn’t feel they could talk to their parents or teachers.

'When my mum sees someone on TV talking about sex, she gets angry, saying ‘if that was my child…’. If she’s like that about someone on TV, what would she be like if I said anything?' Katema, 17, student

7. What if I don’t talk with my children?
Not talking about sex can affect young people for the rest of their lives. They may pick up the message that sex is wrong or something that should be kept secret. That’s not a healthy attitude, and it will make it harder for them to ask for important advice.

8. Just because they look embarrassed...
...doesn't mean they’re not listening. Talking about sex might make both of you cringe, but it’s too important to avoid. Think how much harder it would be to find out that your daughter was pregnant or your son had a sexually transmitted infection (STI). By talking about sex and relationships, you are helping your teenager learn how to protect their health and wellbeing.

9. Listen first, then talk
There’s no need to hurry. Take some time to gain your child’s trust. Ask them questions and listen to their answers. Try to find out how much they know. That way, you won’t patronise or confuse them.

10. 'I’m available' isn’t enough
According to teenagers, parents who say, 'If you want to know anything, just ask' are avoiding the issue. Be pro-active sometimes: talk to your children and fill any gaps in their knowledge.

11. Make sure they know about safer sex
Your child needs to know how to avoid pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Condoms help protect against STIs and pregnancy, and young people can get them free from community contraception clinics, young people's services, genitourinary medicine (GUM) and sexual health clinics and some general practices. There are lots of methods of contraception to choose from (see Useful links). Even if your child uses another form of contraception to protect against pregnancy, they can still use condoms to protect against STIs.

12. If your child is gay
Everyone, regardless of their sexuality, needs to know about safer sex messages, including how to help protect themselves against sexually transmitted infections and unintended pregnancy. Condoms and dental dams offer some protection against both.

Women and girls who have sexual contact with other females can get and pass on sexually transmitted infections so it’s important they know how to help protect themselves (see Sexual health for women). Men and boys who have sexual contact with other males need to use condoms to protect themselves against sexually transmitted infections (see Sexual health for men).

If your child is gay they still need to know about contraception. People who identify as gay or lesbian might have sexual contact with people of the opposite sex, so it’s important that they know about contraception and avoiding unintended pregnancy.

Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (see Useful links) is a national voluntary organisation and registered charity that has parents' groups and a telephone helpline on 0845 652031. 

Parentline Plus and fpa (formerly the Family Planning Association) offer information on sex, relationships and talking to your teenage child. See Useful links.

Watch the video

In this video, teenagers describe how they came to terms with being gay and how they each found their unique way to tell their family and friends.

 

Last reviewed: 18/12/2008

How to talk to your teenager about sex