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0:00:02.000	0:00:03.009	was that was the
0:00:03.160	0:00:14.150	well that's a tribute to a man by the name of malcolm mclaren up to cfive I think if anything it distribution the administrators at on the twenty two years
0:00:14.709	0:00:19.319	well we had a chance to make a pretty good film in the name of which you know
0:00:20.119	0:00:20.949	he him
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0:00:42.750	0:00:51.809	so when malcolm and officials began to think they should make a movie obviously the person they want to direct it was ross meyer identity to the that beforehand
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0:00:57.820	0:00:59.759	but they all seemed all
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0:01:06.239	0:01:13.269	and also it that he knew nothing about the sex pistols that have a completely different viewpoint
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0:07:31.279	0:07:33.349	%uh you know we want us to
0:07:33.919	0:07:38.979	he must have a quotation by Charles keating the head of the citizens for decent literature recess
0:07:39.069	0:07:45.089	more than anyone else at this time ross meyer was responsible for the case of values in American society
0:07:45.559	0:07:46.649	Charles keating
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Where is Michael Jackson Decomposing this Halloween? The Great Mausoleum at Forest Lawn Memorial Mortuaries

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Decomposing this Halloween? The Great Mausoleum at Forest Lawn Memorial Mortuaries

With its architectural inspiration coming from the world-famous Campo Santo in Genoa, Italy, the Great Mausoleum has been called the "New World's Westminster Abbey" by Time Magazine. Shown here is Memorial Terrace, the entrance to the Last Supper Window and the Memorial Court of Honor, where exact reproductions of the greatest works of Michelangelo are on display.

Cuando se experimenta la pérdida de un ser querido, puede ser difícil enfrentarse a la realidad. When one experiences the loss of a loved one, can be difficult to face reality.

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You only need to make all of your arrangements with Forest Lawn, not a second party or another mortuary. Simply contact us at (800) 204-3131, and we will arrange to have your loved one transferred to Forest Lawn for burial. We will arrange for you to meet with one of our Memorial Counselors either by phone or in-person to make the arrangements.
If you will be having church or memorial services outside of California in your state, you will need to contact a local funeral home to provide you with the mortuary services that you will need. Your funeral home will then make arrangements to ship your loved one to Forest Lawn.
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Here is a list of books on various loss topics.

How to Go On Living When Someone You Love Dies

by Therese Rando

Lexington Books

How to Survive the Loss of a Love

by Melba Colgrove and Harold Bloomfield

Prelude Press

Living Through Mourning

by Harriet Sarnoff Schiff

Penguin Books

FatherLoss; How Sons of All Ages Come to Terms with the Deaths of Their Dads

by Neil Chethik

Hyperion Press

Healing a Parent's Grieving Heart; 100 Practical Ideas After Your Child Dies

by Alan Wolfelt

Companion Press

What on Earth Do You Do When Someone Dies?

by Trevor Romain

Free Spirit Publishing

(Note: Written for children; appropriate for everyone)

Making Loss Matter: Creating Meaning in Difficult Times

by Rabbi David Wolpe

Riverhead Books Es importante entender que cada quien experimenta la pena a su manera, que no existen límites de tiempo para el dolor, y que éste no se presenta en etapas sino que tiende a ser de naturaleza cíclica. It is important to understand that everyone experiences grief in their own way, there are no time limits for pain and that it does not occur in stages but tends to be cyclical in nature.

Choque Shock

Cuando la pérdida es repentina e inesperada, su cuerpo puede entrar en estado de choque. When the loss is sudden and unexpected, your body may go into shock. Esto es una reacción normal de "autoprotección". This is a normal reaction of self-protection. Usualmente es un período breve, dependiendo de la gravedad de la pérdida y de su estado emocional en ese momento. It's usually a short period, depending on the severity of loss and emotional state at that time.

Negación Disclaimer

Como la pérdida es tan devastadora, es posible que se rehúse a aceptar los hechos, algunas veces hasta el punto de imaginar que su ser querido aún está vivo. Because the loss is so devastating, we may refuse to accept the facts, sometimes to the point of imagining that your loved one is still alive. Esto ocurre con frecuencia, especialmente cuando se trata de una pérdida repentina. This happens frequently, especially when it comes to a sudden loss.

Liberación emocional Emotional release

Puede manifestar sus emociones llorando, expresando sus sentimientos, con cambios en el estado de ánimo y en algunos casos hasta gritando. You can express their emotions crying, expressing your feelings, with changes in mood and in some cases screaming. Estos y otros sentimientos pueden ser una parte normal de la expresión de sus emociones. These and other feelings can be a normal part of the expression of their emotions.

Depresión y soledad Depression and loneliness

Usted puede experimentar pensamientos de desconsuelo y desesperanza ocasional. You may experience thoughts of despair and hopelessness occasionally. Tal vez le sea útil saber que estos sentimientos son normales y que durarán (en la mayoría de los casos) un período de tiempo breve. You may find it useful to know that these feelings are normal and will last (in most cases) a short time.

Síntomas físicos de la aflicción Physical symptoms of grief

Necesita reconocer que su sistema inmunitario está sobreexcitado durante condiciones extremas de estrés. Needs to recognize that their immune system is overexcited during extreme stress. Es importante que se cuide físicamente, que trate de comer alimentos saludables, que haga ejercicio y que trate de descansar. It is important to physical care, which try to eat healthy foods, you exercise and try to rest.

No es raro sentirse extremadamente cansado o letárgico durante los primeros días y semanas posteriores al fallecimiento de un ser amado. It is not unusual to feel extremely tired or lethargic during the first days and weeks following the death of a loved one.

Pánico Panic

Algunas personas pueden experimentar ocasionalmente ataques de pánico. Some people may experience occasional panic attacks. Puede sentir que hay algo muy malo con usted, y tal vez hasta preguntarse algo como "¿Estoy perdiendo la razón?" You may feel that something is very wrong with you, and maybe even ask something like "Am I going crazy?" Hablar y expresarse sobre estos sentimientos puede ayudarle. Talk and express these feelings can help.

Sentimientos de culpa Feelings of guilt

La culpa es una reacción muy común a la pena. Guilt is a common reaction to grief. Se puede sentir culpable sobre algo que dijo o que no dijo, algo que hizo o que no hizo. You may feel guilty about something you said or not said, something he did or did not do.

Aunque se dé cuenta que no hay nada que pudiera haber hecho para evitar el fallecimiento, se puede sentir culpable de no haber hecho "más" para salvar a la persona que falleció. Although he realizes that there's nothing you could have done to avoid death, you may feel guilty for not having done "more" to save the person who died. Si experimenta sentimientos de culpa, es importante que encuentre un lugar seguro para hablar sobre ello, sin que traten de distraerlo del tema los amigos bien intencionados. If you experience feelings of guilt, it is important to find a safe place to talk about it, without trying to distract the subject's well-meaning friends.

Hostilidad Hostility

No es poco común sentirse enojado, y no es raro sentirse enojado con la persona que falleció. It is not uncommon to feel angry, and it is not unusual to feel angry with the person who died. Lo importante es encontrar maneras de expresar su enojo que no le causen daño a usted oa otras personas. The important thing is to find ways to express anger that do not cause harm to yourself or others.

Incapacidad para reanudar las actividades normales Inability to resume normal activities

Tal vez descubra que simplemente no puede regresar a su vida normal. You may find that simply can not return to normal life. Tal vez hasta sienta la necesidad de aislarse de la gente durante un período de tiempo. Maybe even feel the need to withdraw from people for a period of time. Use este tiempo de soledad para cuidarse. Use this time to take care of solitude.

Aceptación y recuperación gradual de la pérdida Acceptance and gradual recovery of loss

Encuentre consuelo sabiendo que su dolor no durará para siempre. Find comfort knowing that your pain will not last forever. Es común que las personas que sufren la pérdida de un ser querido busquen y encuentren una nueva sensación de plenitud y bienestar. It is common for people grieving the death of a loved one to seek and find a new sense of wholeness and well being.

Reajuste a la nueva realidad Adjustment to the new reality

Esto es darse cuenta que ya no es quien era, pero que hay una nueva situación en su futuro. This is to realize that it is no longer who he was, but there's a new situation in the future. Está comenzando a vivir otra vez. It's starting to live again.